Do you often ask yourself “Why am I not meeting anyone”?

Don’t Leave Your Love Life to Chance or chances are you won’t meet anyone anytime soon. I’m not saying it can’t happen, anything is possible. It’s just that it’s not as likely these days to have someone come sweep you off your feet.

Why do guys need to approach women when they can hide behind a phone app or computer and in and in some cases pretend to be someone they are not! The fairy tail of meeting someone by fate is well just that, a fairytale in most cases.
I’m not saying it can’t happen but don’t leave your love life to fate. Stop procrastinating or thinking that all men should approach you. Those days are over! It’s a 2 way street.

Granted, some women are only attracted to men that will approach them and that’s fine but you may be waiting a long time to meet someone.

There are various reasons why men don’t approach women they are interested in. They are shy and nervous, afraid of rejection, they aren’t picking up on the signs from you, or they just haven’t noticed you.

Give them a reason to get to know you, approach them first if they aren’t approaching, there is nothing wrong with that. get in their face and let them decide after they meet you if they are attracted to you and want to take you out on a date or get your number.

A misconception that women have about men is that men don’t like it when women approach them. This is not true.
When I was single, I used to approach men all the time but I found a reason to have a conversation with them. (complimenting what they were wearing, asking them for directions or making a reference to my surroundings.) Read the rest through our friend Single in the City

About the Author: 


Laura Bilotta is a dating coach, matchmaker and the co-founder of successful dating Laura established Single in the City in 2002. Since its early beginnings twelve years ago, Laura’s efforts and expertise have allowed Single in the City to become one of the largest event based dating companies in the Greater Toronto Area. 

Laura’s expert knowledge of dating etiquette, relationships, and human behaviour form the base of her experience. She has hosted over one-thousand speed dating/mixer events, coached more than one-hundred men and women into dating gurus, and she has proudly played matchmaker for countless love-seeking singles.

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